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Mary Blankenburg

LISW

Mary Blankenburg , LISW

Therapist in Iowa

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About Mary

Mary Blankenburg is a licensed social worker with 35 years of clinical experience who emphasizes the healing potential of a strong therapeutic relationship. She has provided individual, couples, family, and group therapy across settings that include a community mental health agency, a program serving adolescents and their families, and a private practice she has maintained for thirty years. Mary blends attention to emotional history with practical, body-aware methods informed by her background as a trained dancer, exploring simple movement strategies alongside talk-based work to support overall wellbeing.

Her practice attends to depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem, addictions, relationship and family issues, sleep problems, anger, career concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and compassion fatigue, among other areas. She works sensitively with personality disorder traits and the effects of trauma, supporting post-traumatic growth while helping people recognize bodily and autonomic cues that signal safety or distress. Mary uses trauma-focused skills, including EMDR and gentle movement, together with developmental, cognitive, and attachment-based frameworks to change how past toxic experiences relate to present life.

Mary helps people cultivate greater self-kindness and gradually remediate the effects of trauma. She holds the credential LISW - Licensed Independent Social Worker - and brings a steady, compassionate approach to the often challenging but ultimately rewarding work of healing.

Integrating Therapeutic Approaches with Online Care

Mary often uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people clarify their values, notice unhelpful thoughts without getting entangled in them, and take meaningful action toward a valued life. ACT is useful for anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes because it emphasizes psychological flexibility and purposeful action.

Attachment-Based Therapy is another core influence, focusing on how early relationships shape current patterns in intimacy, trust, and emotional regulation. This approach helps people understand attachment wounds and develop new relational strategies, which can be especially helpful for relationship, abandonment, and attachment-related concerns.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Mary and other licensed professionals work with clients to identify which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and they adjust the plan over time to reflect what is most helpful.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to engage in this work - through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging - making it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to connect from different locations. These options support continuity of care and allow therapists and clients to choose the format that best supports progress and comfort.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Mary Blankenburg have?

Mary Blankenburg has 35 years of experience in clinical practice.

Is Mary Blankenburg a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LISW, which stands for Licensed Independent Social Worker. License details: IA LISW 01283.

In which languages does Mary Blankenburg provide therapy?

Mary Blankenburg provides therapy in English.

Where is Mary Blankenburg located?

Mary Blankenburg is located in Iowa.

How can I work with Mary Blankenburg as my therapist?

You can work with Mary Blankenburg through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Mary Blankenburg work with international clients?

Mary Blankenburg does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Mary Blankenburg cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityForgivenessGuilt and shameLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

35+ years

Licensed

Iowa

Languages

English

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